Greeting Etiquette In Interpersonal Communication

1. "did you eat?"

This is a commonly used greeting in Chinese history.

In the long feudal society of China, what most labor demands is to have enough to eat.

Therefore, asking the other person to eat is a concern of the other party.

With the improvement of the living standard of our people, the problem of eating has been solved. However, the greeting of "have you eaten" has been handed down.

But now, this greeting basically has no original meaning.

It is just a form that no longer contains the original content. "Is it what you eat" is merely a greeting, which means, "I saw you and greeted you."

As for the other party, it is irrelevant that they really muddle through and do not eat.

Therefore, in the economically developed areas, "you have eaten" questions gradually replaced by new greetings.

When you use this saving greeting, you should pay special attention to occasions, greeting in the bathroom, showing extremely poor language and embarrassment to each other.

2. "what are you going to do?"

This is also a relatively primitive greeting language, passing by with each other, in order to show that the other side is seen, instead of all languages in this language.

As for what the other party is doing, it is not important, it means a greeting.

In western developed countries, there is basically no such greeting, because "what to do" is personal privacy, and they do not want others to interfere too much in their private affairs.

This greeting appears in China, also reflects the mentality of the Chinese people. With the development of the economy, this sentence will gradually be replaced by new greetings.

3. "where did you get rich?"

This is a question that China has just come up in recent years.

"In the long history of China"

4. "are you busy these days?"

Since the reform and opening up, our pace of life has been accelerating, and we are busy and busy with our business, money and life.

For a long time, people like to greet their alumni, colleagues, especially those of their age, with "you are busy these days".

I feel that this greeting reflects not only the mutual concern among friends but also the elegance and elegance of friends.

The interrogation is not a substantive understanding of the other's busy work.

If the other person answers the question of "busy", it is impolite for a questioner to stop asking "busy".

5. the greeting of "hello" is simple and clear, versatile, and a blessing to others. Therefore, this sentence is often used after liberation. Nowadays, it often appears in an open society with economic development, frequent contacts between different social groups and relatively loose interpersonal relationships. Especially in some cities, with the quickening pace of life, everyone is rushing to and fro. The former conversation type greetings are no longer applicable. When they meet each other, a lively rhythm of "hello" is accompanied by a smile, nodding, etc. the way of greeting is politeness.

Therefore, this is a new type of greeting that comes into being with the development of the times.