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How To Praise Strangers At Work

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Praise Strangers For Personal Interaction


At work, with Stranger Dealing with people is very common. Praise It's the best way to get close to strangers.


But when we praise strangers, if we master bad methods, we will further the distance, or even the end. Therefore, when praising a stranger, it is best to avoid taking the character or character of the other person as the object, and praise his past achievements, behavior or belongings. If you praise the other person, "you are a good man", even if you are sincere, the other side is likely to have "doubts and alerts" when you first met, how did you know I was a good person?


Sometimes you can't tell where the other person is from, you can also guess from the other's speech and behavior to open the topic. For example: praise the lofty greatness or importance of their profession. Because everyone hopes that their occupation can be respected by others, and their work is recognized by the society. The first acquaintance's praise of his career is just to cater for his psychological needs and is easy to generate interest in conversation.


Guri is a salesperson who often contacts with strangers in his work. She knows how to praise strangers.


With the expansion of the scope of business, Gao Li often shuttle between cities. Once, on the plane to Yunnan, her neighbor was a northeast boy with a strong accent. He had nothing to do with him, and he talked with him. From the beginning, she was surprised to learn that he was a young man in the northeast, and then praised the northeast people with a frank, warm, and enough friend. She said she had several northeastern colleagues who were very cool. The young man was happy to be home. He called Zhang Feng. He was called Heilongjiang. He was also a business man, but now he has already done the manager's job. In the two person's conversation, Zhang Feng has taught many successful sales experiences to Gao Li. {page_break}


In this kind of compliment, Gao Li learned a lot of knowledge, and his business skills became more and more proficient in his future work. Soon after, she was promoted to department manager. When she imparted experience to various salesmen, she repeatedly stressed that in the course of dealing with strangers, it is fair to meet each other and praise. Sometimes this kind of compliment will bring you unexpected surprises.


Gao Li starts from the other's native place, because he travels north and south, judging from his accent that he is northeast. Sometimes, when you can't tell where the other person is, you can also open the topic from the presumed occupation.


People who meet each other because they do not understand each other, so the compliments may be around some superficial aspects. Therefore, when praising Amy's water meets people, we must grasp the eyeshot and the opportunity, so that your praise can become a stepping stone. The compliments should not be too specific and detailed. They should be broad, warm and sincere. In order to achieve the desired effect, we must analyze how to praise it.


It can be seen that beauty is everywhere, but our eyes lack discovery. That is to say, as long as you master the skills of complimenting strangers, you can master this in social communication. Interpersonal communication The golden key.

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