Chen Yufang Writes The Symphony Of Love With Her Mother's Love.

1. when I saw the baby's anxiety, I had to manage him.

Chen Yufang was born in an ordinary peasant family in Linyi County, Yuncheng, and was raised by a foster mother just after a full moon. Since the adoption of Chen Yufang, she has remarried three times. During this period, mother and daughter suffered from cold and cold. When Chen Yufang was 6 years old, his foster mother finally found a good man to settle down. The adoptive father is good, though poor, but he is very fond of Chen Yufang as his own daughter. Before being discriminated against by her mother and her tenderness, Chen Yufang's gratitude was deeply impressed on her heart.

Chen Yufang's gratitude to his adoptive parents and his natural goodness helped him form a character of helping others from childhood. No matter who is turning to her, Chen Yufang always promises and does his best to help others. She helped countless people. She adopted 59 orphans and disabled children successively.

In 1989, Chen Yufang, 32, set up a sewing class in the village, and his business was very prosperous. In order to improve her sewing skills, she went to Beijing to learn skills. In 1989, she founded the "Dai Yu clothing art school" which is a garment processing and trainee training. In Beijing, Chen Yufang was reported by the media as a model. What Chen Yufang did not expect was that the media coverage had attracted a disabled teenager to her side, and she had taken the road of adopting disabled children since then. Ai Houting, a disabled teenager from the northeast, suffers from polio. He can only walk with crutches. After seeing the media coverage, he came to Chen Yufang to learn tailoring skills. When Chen Yufang saw this young man who could not even stand up, she was in trouble. She thought such a disabled teenager could not be a tailor. We could see that AI Hou Ting was limping with crutches and thought of his own life. Chen Yufang moved his compassion. She decided to see the disabled teenager first. With this idea, Chen Yufang began to inquire about the poliomyelitis hospital with good efficacy everywhere. That's it. Chen Yu Fang AI has helped three operations. Finally, AI Hou Ting threw away the crutches and walked like a normal person. On the day of throwing away the crutches, AI Hou Ting excitedly knelt in front of Chen Yufang and shouted "Mom". Since then, Chen Yufang has had a son Ai Houting besides two sons. When asked why Chen Yufang wanted to do this, she said frankly, "I will have to take care of him when I see her."

　 2. I don't have so many children to throw away when I die.

With the first one, there were second or third. By 2003, she had adopted 23 orphans and disabled children. In this year, Chen Yufang managed to run a full-time boarding school integrating elementary school, junior high school, vocational education and special education in the town of Lin Jin. Since then, the news of Chen Yufang's adoption of orphans and disabled children has been widely circulated. "This school has two original intentions. One is that these children are easy to go to school, and the cost is correspondingly low. The other is that I want to train several college students in person." This is Chen Yufang's idea for many years.

Next, there are always orphans and handicapped children coming to her for help. adoption The kindhearted she always asks for everything, and adopts them one by one. At the same time, she has raised more than 20 children at the same time. The large group of children had a headache just to eat and dress. Every day, dozens of steamed buns were gone. The dumplings had to be wrapped up for a day before they could eat. They had to go to the wholesale market in Xi'an to buy bags and bags.

With the growth of children and the emergence of various problems, Chen Yufang's burden is becoming more and more important. She once vowed not to adopt it, but when the poor orphan appeared in front of her, her childhood experiences were always flashing. Her inner pity was always aroused, and she could not conquer her reason, so she could only subdue. With the increasing number of orphans, her financial burden is getting heavier and heavier, and the expenditure for a year is more than ten million yuan. At first, because of its good clothing business, it can barely support the factory. But then, the clothing business was running out of money, making Chen Yufang in a difficult position. Chen Yufang was suffering from severe laryngeal spasm due to years of fatigue, financial difficulties and repeated anger. In difficult times, Chen Yufang even went to house to lend money to teachers for wages. She had been taken to hospital many times, and the doctor told her that she could not work any longer, otherwise the illness would be out of control. But the reality makes Chen Yufang unable to work. The various expenses placed before her worry her many times and want to commit suicide. She even thought of various methods of suicide. "I'm dead, and I don't have to suffer anymore, but when I think of the mess I left behind, so many kids throw it to me, I feel like I can't die." {page_break}

　 3., you can only be worried about others' fears.

Faced with a large group of children of different ages, discipline is a big problem. The obedient ones are good enough to say that the dishonest little children often suffer from Chen Yufang's pain. On one occasion, Chen Yufang, a boy named Jin Ze, knocked down the jaw of a girl student in the class. The girl's parents wanted to beat Jin Ze, and Chen Yufang quickly apologized to the parents and sent the girl to the hospital. It costs more than three thousand yuan to cure the girl. After returning, Chen Yufang was also repeatedly criticized by the girl's parents. Things like this happen every two and three times, and when the children are in trouble, she will be in trouble.

Chen Yufang's exhaustion of life has made her exhausted. The family contradiction caused by the adoption of orphaned children has made her heartbroken. A few years ago, Chen Yufang's two sons had been married. "No blame for others, daughters in law are good daughter-in-law. The key is that our family is not good. Every day we live with these adopted children and let them have no freedom or space." Mention these, Chen Yufang always shed tears.

Husband and son are loyal supporters of Chen Yufang, but in the face of such a large group of orphans and disabled children, for a long time, they sometimes get bored. During the summer vacation, the couple finally started fighting for these orphans and disabled children. Chen Yufang intends to send some children to their relatives for a few days, so that they can have a little rest. I didn't expect these relatives to leave their children. The couple took a couple of children for a day and did not send one away. Finally, they could not return. When dinner was at night, the husband who had a stomach of fire could no longer restrain himself, and poured a basin of swill into a big pot of anger. Chen Yufang, who was equally angry, also grabbed a steamed bread and smashed it to her husband. The couple fought together for these orphans and disabled children. "At that time, we felt that our hearts were too grieved and too annoyed to let this happen." Chen Yufang remembers the fight.

Chen Yufang was advised not to adopt a child again, but she always said, "I also know that the adoption of so many children is too difficult, but I can not bear to refuse when I see them being so scared."

4., with income, these children can be raised.

In the past 24 years, Chen Yufang has been able to stick to his family's support. Honest and honest husband Chen Tianli is her strong backing. Whatever he does, as soon as Chen Yufang starts, he will follow up quietly. From making noodles to opening a garment factory to running a school, he is Chen Yufang's good wife, and the logistics work is very well done. For Chen Yufang to adopt orphans and handicapped children one after another, Chen Tianli sometimes feels very helpless: "every time she sees those" anxious children ", no matter how hard they are now, how much trouble they will have in the future, they will always accept it first. In order to lighten his wife's burden, Chen Tian Li took all the heavy work and hard work.

Chen Zhi is Chen Yufang's two son. He has a gentle personality and is good at communicating with others. A lot of trouble happened to these orphans and handicapped children was handled well by him. "For so many years, sometimes there are grievances, but I can only do my best to help her. Who let me have such a silly mother?" Chen said helplessly.

At the end of the interview, Chen Yufang led reporters to visit her embroidery workshop. Several workers in the embroidery workshop were disabled young people she adopted. The project was recommended by the Red Cross. She went to Suzhou to study for more than half a year, and then she was sent back to these disabled youth. "This is Suzhou embroidery, which is famous for its popularity. Now we sell all these works to Taiwan and other regions. Our business is very good. With these incomes, we can support these dozen children today." Chen Yufang pointed to the shocking wall. Suzhou embroidery The work happily told reporters.

Looking at these exquisite embroidery works of Chen Yufang, the reporter thought, if it is not for these orphans and handicapped children, what kind of rich life will she and his family live with, just like Chen Yu Fang's ingenuity and hard work? Just like Chen Zhi said, "she always looks at other people's pitiful, does not want to own pitiful, does not feel pitiful, thinks for others more than herself."